If he had no intention of coming back, then he wouldn't have bothered to leave a note. But it is worrisome, with Scotty and McCoy leaving so close to one another. If there's an emergency, then he would need to be there.
If he was planning on leaving forever, he would have told us to come with him. He's an idiot, but he's not stupid enough to go on without me and Spock on that bridge.
[It was only due to being Robert that he waited this long to speak, but still the bitterness of someone is not something that Bob can ignore for very long.] Are you all right? [Yeah, he doesn't expect a response.]
Upset? Oh no. Oh no no no no no no. 'Upset' is something I'll reserve for when someone I actually care about decides to turn around and jet off like the Barge is a hobby they've got sick of.
So you liked your warden and he left. Been there, done that. It sucks.
Since I was a kid. I'm not a heartless bitch or anything, I'm just.. normally sarcastic. I don't see anything wrong with that, especially since you're like, the exact same.
I'm sure it does, but seriously, I think you need to talk to somebody about this selective comprehension you're suffering from.
Let me make this absolutely clear to you. I? Am not upset Jimmy left. We weren't friends, I didn't like him, and I didn't hate him enough to now feel deprived of the continuing opportunity to kick his ass. He did not help me. He didn't fail to help me in a way that was useful to me. And I'm not all screwed up with attachment issues so that every time someone walks out on me it feels exactly like that time Mommy walked out or whatever.
Try to understand this: by the time he left, I was completely and totally indifferent to my Warden. Now he is gone, and I do not care. It happens. Quit projecting.
Well, gee, maybe I'm being that way because you're being awfully incapable of understanding and accepting that some things are exactly as they seem and aren't hiding some deep emotional pain.
Good job on attempting empathy, I guess, but it helps if there's something to empathise with. Whatever.
Look at it from my perspective, princess, if you're even capable. We've barely said two words to each other in the eight months I've been here. Then you sail up, pretend to know exactly how I'm feeling and why, then you go swinging back to sarcasm and 'whatever-I-don't-care' when I tell you exactly how wrong you are.
That is not 'trying to be nice'. That's trying to prove what an incredibly perceptive genius you are and then getting all bratty when you fail.
You didn't hurt my feelings or anything, I just don't get what's with the attitude. I was trying to be nice and you came at me with all kinds of social incompetence unpleasantness. Did you really think I'd like, not react with sarcasm or something when you obviously don't want to talk about whatever?
I mean, it's not worth getting in a fight over to me. That's why I figured we could just let it go. But if you really want to keep going, it's not like I have anything better to do.
This is not a fight, this is at worst an argument, and I would call it a conversation. If this was a fight, one of us would be in the Infirmary by now and frankly I don't think it would be me.
But seriously, since apparently you honestly don't know what you've done wrong here, I am going to try and teach you something. Being 'nice', a word I use advisedly when applying it to you, encompasses not acting all wounded and/or being a total jerk when the other person isn't nice back.
If you're 'trying to be nice' and the recipient of your niceness doesn't want to hear it, the 'nice' response isn't to turn on the verbal abuse and keep pushing like you can force them to accept your sympathy. That's creepy, and it makes you seem like you're looking to profit from it somehow. Learn to back off.
Private. Only because Shego's a chick does she actually listen.
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gotgreenmagic) wrote2010-05-02 06:22 pm
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I wonder if we can get, y'know, pub tokens or something.
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If you're still here after dinner.
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If he was planning on leaving forever, he would have told us to come with him. He's an idiot, but he's not stupid enough to go on without me and Spock on that bridge.
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That is almost as adorable as the fact that you seem to think Cap'n Jerk is ever coming back here.
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He will be back, Shego. I promise.
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Additionally, since when do you 'try to be nice'?
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Since I was a kid. I'm not a heartless bitch or anything, I'm just.. normally sarcastic. I don't see anything wrong with that, especially since you're like, the exact same.
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Let me make this absolutely clear to you. I? Am not upset Jimmy left. We weren't friends, I didn't like him, and I didn't hate him enough to now feel deprived of the continuing opportunity to kick his ass. He did not help me. He didn't fail to help me in a way that was useful to me. And I'm not all screwed up with attachment issues so that every time someone walks out on me it feels exactly like that time Mommy walked out or whatever.
Try to understand this: by the time he left, I was completely and totally indifferent to my Warden. Now he is gone, and I do not care. It happens. Quit projecting.
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Good luck and stuff.
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Well, gee, maybe I'm being that way because you're being awfully incapable of understanding and accepting that some things are exactly as they seem and aren't hiding some deep emotional pain.
Good job on attempting empathy, I guess, but it helps if there's something to empathise with. Whatever.
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Private - Oh Hayley. Right conclusions, wrong Warden.
Private - No really. I don't remember. >>;
Whatever. Sorry.
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Look at it from my perspective, princess, if you're even capable. We've barely said two words to each other in the eight months I've been here. Then you sail up, pretend to know exactly how I'm feeling and why, then you go swinging back to sarcasm and 'whatever-I-don't-care' when I tell you exactly how wrong you are.
That is not 'trying to be nice'. That's trying to prove what an incredibly perceptive genius you are and then getting all bratty when you fail.
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social incompetenceunpleasantness. Did you really think I'd like, not react with sarcasm or something when you obviously don't want to talk about whatever?I mean, it's not worth getting in a fight over to me. That's why I figured we could just let it go. But if you really want to keep going, it's not like I have anything better to do.
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But seriously, since apparently you honestly don't know what you've done wrong here, I am going to try and teach you something. Being 'nice', a word I use advisedly when applying it to you, encompasses not acting all wounded and/or being a total jerk when the other person isn't nice back.
If you're 'trying to be nice' and the recipient of your niceness doesn't want to hear it, the 'nice' response isn't to turn on the verbal abuse and keep pushing like you can force them to accept your sympathy. That's creepy, and it makes you seem like you're looking to profit from it somehow. Learn to back off.
Private. Only because Shego's a chick does she actually listen.
Okay,
whatever.you're right. Thanks for the tip.